After Disclosure Series: FANOS

I feel strongly that there needs to be a safe place to talk…and it really needs to stay a safe place. It was easy for me to lose sight of this right after disclosure. Who am I kidding? Not only did I lose sight of this, I was blind. I went ballistic on my husband a number of times the second he walked through the door because I was triggering. He would have no idea what was going on with me. As far as he knew, the last time we talked, all was peachy in my world. But that’s how the world of relational trauma works, isn’t it? It makes no sense. It blindsides us and in turn we blindside them.

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It's Time For Some Pictures

Things around here have been tough. I mean really tough. My kid, who should be enjoying their last year of school, is instead having the worst year of their life (and no, that's not me being dramatic). While things are beginning to look brighter, and I'm grateful for that and for how much the family has rallied together, I thought why stop there? Why not share the other things that bring a smile to my heart?

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